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The first few weeks of the school year are behind us and the initial back-to-school buzz has settled into everyday routines. For many parents, gentle reminders from schools have already started with emails about upcoming trips, parents’ evenings, special days like harvest festivals, school fairs and extracurricular activities all competing for attention, while homework quietly piles up. With so much to juggle, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. So how can we support our children’s learning at home without leaving it all to the teachers?

Create a consistent routine.

This remains the old golden rule: children thrive on routines. Knowing what to expect helps them feel secure and makes the day run more smoothly. A simple, predictable after-school routine might include a snack or lunch, a short rest or downtime, schoolwork or practice exercises, followed by an after-school club or activity, then dinner and bedtime. The order can be flexible but the key is consistency. A clear routine helps children stay calm and reduces stress for parents too.

Set up a homework-friendly space.

A kitchen or dining table can work perfectly, it doesn’t need to be fancy. The key is that children know exactly where they are expected to do homework or practice exercises and that all essentials  like charger, pencils, ruler, rubber,  A4 paper are close by so time isn’t wasted looking for supplies. To make the space even more inviting and effective, personalise it by letting your child choose a pencil case, notebook, or desk mat, ensure it is well-lit to avoid eye strain, minimise distractions by keeping toys and phones out of reach, provide flexible seating to suit their age and comfort and consider adding a timer or clock to help them manage tasks and build independent time management skills.

Make reading a natural habit.

Daily reading doesn’t have to be limited to bedtime. Encourage reading at any time that fits your family’s routine whether it’s after school, during breakfast, or as a calm afternoon activity. Reading aloud together makes the experience interactive, allowing you to discuss the story, explore new vocabulary, and spark your child’s imagination. Audiobooks are another great option as they can support comprehension, pronunciation and a love of stories, especially on busy days or during car journeys. Involve your child in choosing what to read, from picture books and comics to novels and non-fiction, giving them a sense of ownership and excitement. Even just 10–15 minutes a day consistently can make reading feel like a natural, enjoyable habit rather than a chore.

Encourage independence (but stay supportive).

Encourage children to tick off their own homework or practice exercises, so they take responsibility for their tasks. This small step helps them become more organised and confident. While it’s important to let them work on their own, be there to help or answer questions when they need it. Finding this balance helps kids learn to be independent while still feeling supported, making learning at home a positive experience.

Keep it positive and realistic.

Focus on progress rather than perfection and celebrate every step forward, no matter how small. Not every day will be easy, some will flow and others will feel like a struggle which is completely normal. By maintaining a positive outlook, you can help your child stay motivated while making learning at home a calmer and less stressful experience for the whole family.

In conclusion, keeping things simple, consistent, and positive can go a long way in supporting your child’s education while also nurturing their confidence and love of learning. Which of these ideas works best for you, or what tips have you discovered along the way? Share them in the comments, I’d love to learn from you too.